I keep forgetting that this weekend is going to be a Holiday weekend. Ya to long weekends!
Coming up on this weekend, the boyfriend and I didn’t really plan anything. He’s going to be taking on older friend to Kentucky for a family reunion Friday/Saturday, so he’ll be away for part of the weekend. Even though I started with zero plans, things are quickly starting to pile on. I agreed to go to a cousin’s baby shower. My sister decided we should all get together on Sunday to celebrate my Dad and Nephew’s birthdays. I need to work on the house some more. And the boyfriend would like to at least carve out some time for the two of us to spend relaxing.
Several of the things I have planned for the weekend will involve spending money: I need a gift for the baby shower. I need gifts for my nephew and Dad. I’ll probably need to buy some more things for the house (paint, or wood, or something along those lines). I’m hoping to keep things in line though. In the past, I would have used gift-giving as an excuse to spend extravagantly. Now that I’m keeping more to a budget, I try to keep things more reasonable.
Luckily, coming up with the money won’t be an issue. Every week I give myself a set amount of “spending money”, which gets used to cover gas, food, and pretty much anything else that isn’t a regular expense. It equals out to around $124 per week. It used to be $154, but I’ve started setting aside an additional $30 a week for debt repayment. Most weeks I don’t spend all of this money, and so I move it into a temporary “slush fund”. Then when I need to buy gifts, or clothes, or anything else outside the ordinary, I can pull money out of this fund. So far, my system is working pretty well for me.
But having so many “gift-giving” events this weekend reminds me of another thing: The Holidays are coming! Come November I have numerous family birthdays, including my own. And then there will be food to buy for Thanksgiving, and gifts and food for Christmas, and overall just more spending in general. Being in the middle of a heat wave, it’s hard to remember that it’s practically September, and the Holidays will be here before you know it!
Last year I put aside $800 for all costs associated with the Holidays, and I think that worked out pretty well. I think I’ll switch the extra $30 a week over to Holiday savings, just to get that ball rolling. Hopefully I’ll also come back with some money left over from my “Disney Fund”, and can transfer that over to the Holiday Fund as well.
In the past, I used to have to pull money from other things in order to cover gifts and Holidays. Or, worse yet, in my twenties, everything just went on the credit card(s), with no worries about what that meant for the future. I actually find that, even though I spend less on gifts now, my gifts tend to be more personal, more heart-felt. I guess that’s what happens when your money has more meaning; You know how hard you work for it, how limited it is, and what you’re exchanging for it.
How are you spending your Holiday weekend? And, more importantly, have you started thinking about your Holiday spending?
– Cindy W.